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Christian Singles Dating Service - Christian Dating Tips
One thing I learned from my experience with online dating sites is a lot of men and women could use some tips and suggestions on how to do the "online". Over time, I'll add more tips, and even some articles about Christian dating and relationships. For now, consider these tips.
For Women - Christian Singles Dating Service
* Do not reveal personal information until you are sure you can trust the man. If you're on the phone, all a person needs is your name and state where you live to track.
* If a man pushes a phone call or meeting before you are ready, that's a red flag. A godly man must respect enough to wait until you are comfortable moving forward.
* Do not start. Let the man take the initiative to advance, whether a phone call, meeting or whatever. Personally, I prefer to make initial contact, too. He respect you more.
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* We recommend using a temporary email address such as Hotmail, so you're not giving your permanent email address immediately. Make sure you do not put your full name as your email address you use.
* As a courtesy, you should respond to every guy you write, even if you are not interested. How to get a standard response: "Thanks for writing After reviewing your profile, I do not think we're a good match Thanks for writing, and may God bless you ..." In other words, let them down easy, but given the courtesy of a reply.
* If you post pictures, PLEASE use discretion with the images you choose. Do not select the images that are "sexy" (for example, showing a great cleavage or a very revealing dress.) This may give the wrong impression and attract the wrong kind of guys. (Yes, even on Christian sites there are guys who want a relationship or just phyical are attracted to the physical.) Also, in my opinion, not a good idea to post pictures of "Glamour Shots" because they are not usually a good representation of the "real you." Instead, post pictures that show that doing something you like, and since they really represent who you are.
* These guys are your brothers in Christ, to treat it that way. Christian Singles Dating Service
For men
* Do not allow a woman to move too quickly. Be willing to respect it enough to expect to feel comfortable before proceeding.
* Please note that these women are your sisters in Christ, treat it that way! That means the honor, respect, kindness, gentleness, patience and self-control, to name a few.
* NO SEX! You're playing with the daughter of God here. If you think it is okay to violate God's standard for sexual purity, you're cheating.
And do not play the game of Bill Clinton, who defined sex as intercourse only. Sex includes intercourse, oral, touching breasts or genitals under or over clothing, simulated sex and masturbation.
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* If a woman tells you he is not interested, just let it go. You do not have to respond. There are plenty of women out there. :)
* As a courtesy, you should respond to every woman who writes for you even if you are not interested. How to get a standard response: "Thanks for writing After reviewing your profile, I do not think we're a good match Thanks for writing, and may God bless you ..." In other words, let them down easy, but given the courtesy of a reply.
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